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When contacting me for a booking please be sure to provide all of the requested information in your first inquiry.

A minimum of 48 hours advance notice is requested for all bookings. However my preference is 1-2 weeks advance notice.

Please keep in mind when arranging a meeting that since I am a low volume provider, my time is limited, and longer encounters take priority when I am scheduling meetings.

Please be discreet and respectful when contacting, as I will not respond to any explicit or graphic inquiries.

Location & Availability

I am based in Toronto, and have multiple incall locations available downtown. I am also available to host in Burlington. I always host from upscale condos and hotels to offer you the best experience possible.

Outcalls are available to your 4+ star hotel or high end condo. Outcalls will require a 2 hour minimum booking, plus an additional travel fee of $50+ (depending on your location).

I am available by request only and I’m rarely available to accept same day appointments. I’m generally available for meetings between 10:00am-11:00pm, and I am flexible, however, I do tend to prefer evening meetings.


I require screening for all meetings with new acquaintances. This can be two provider references from well established independent providers, or link to your LinkedIn. I will also accept P411 with sufficient recent OK’s.

If you do not have references you may send a scanned copy of your government official photo ID to themissymays@protonmail.ch which is a secure encrypted email address.

Your privacy is always respected and your personal information will be kept private, screening is for my safety only. 


I require a 20% deposit to secure your booking. I accept deposits in the following forms:

  • Via e-transfer to any of my email accounts: contact.thatmissy@gmail.com or themissymays@protonmail.ch

  • By PayPal (please inquire for PayPal info)

  • Via an e-gift card from one of the listed gift cards on my Spoil Me page.

All deposits are non-refundable, please contact me for more info regarding deposits.


Although it is upsetting, sometimes in life things do not work out as we had planned. In the unfortunate event that you must cancel, I ask that you please do so sooner rather than later. Cancellations made within 48 hours of our planned meeting will incur a 50% cancellation fee of the total consideration.


I pride myself on providing a truly authentic experience, and I prefer to allow for things to occur organically. If your only looking to complete a list of acronyms, then I do not believe that we will be a good fit to meet. That being said, in regards to acronyms, I generally enjoy (almost) all of them. Please see my ‘reviews’ for more details.


Please remember every encounter we have is unique and I believe that reviews create the idea that all experiences will be similar. As each of us are different and unique individuals, our experiences together will differ as well. Please remember that with all encounters YMMV.

Please contact me first if you would like to leave a review of our time together.

Travel & Fly me to you

I am available for travel and “fly me to you”, and I am passport ready! Any travel expenses and accommodations are to be dealt with in advance, along with a 50% deposit. Please inquire for more information regarding Fly me to you & Travel.


I offer meetings with couples for an additional fee of $200/per hour. Both parties must provide sufficient screening info.


“Submission is a gift that is given only to those that earn it.

Submission and BDSM, to me, is about an exchange of power and a bond of trust that is built between a Dom and a sub. A Dom should have the upmost respect for their sub. 

Given the nature of BDSM and submission I am extremely particular about who I choose to share such an intense scene with, and with who I will allow access to this part of myself.

If you would like to learn more about BDSM & KINK I highly recommend we book a meeting at together at The Ritual Chamber (Toronto) with a professional Dom/Domme and have them guide you, in a hands on lesson on BDSM with me, please inquire for info.

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