FAQ & Etiquette

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When contacting me for a booking please be sure to provide all of the requested information in your first inquiry.

A minimum of 1-2 weeks advance notice is requested for all bookings.

Please keep in mind when arranging a meeting that since I am a low volume provider, my time is limited, and longer encounters take priority when I am scheduling meetings.

Please be discreet and respectful when contacting, as I will not respond to any explicit or graphic inquiries.


I require screening for all meetings with new acquaintances. This can be two provider references from well established independent providers, or link to your LinkedIn. I will also accept P411 with sufficient recent OK’s.

If you do not have references you may send a scanned copy of your government official photo ID to themissymays@protonmail.ch

Your privacy is always respected and your personal information will be kept private, screening is for my safety only. 


I require a deposit for all meetings with new acquaintances, meetings 3+ hours in length, and for all travel/fly-me-to-you meetings.

Deposits can be sent via e-transfer to contact.thatmissy@gmail.com or themissymays@protonmail.ch otherwise, please inquire for alternative options for sending your deposit.

All deposits are non-refundable, please contact me for more info regarding deposits.


Although it is upsetting, sometimes in life things do not work out as we had planned. In the unfortunate event that you must cancel, I ask that you please do so sooner rather than later.

Cancellations made within 48 hours of our planned meeting will incur a 50% cancellation fee of the total consideration.


I pride myself on providing a truly authentic experience, and I prefer to allow for things to occur organically. If your only looking to complete a list of acronyms, then I do not believe that we will be a good fit to meet.


Every encounter I have is unique and I believe that reviews create the idea that all experiences will be similar. After a plethora of stellar reviews — click here, that I have accumulated over my time so far in the industry, I now no longer wish to have my name attached to reviews revealing explicit details of our time together. 

With respect to me and the personal moments we've shared together, I request that you do not post any reviews of our time together. 

Travel & Fly me to you

I am available for travel and “fly me to you”, and I am passport ready! Any travel expenses and accommodations are to be dealt with in advance, along with a 25% deposit. Please inquire for more information regarding Fly me to you & Travel.


I offer meetings with couples for an additional fee of $200/per hour. Both parties must provide sufficient screening info.


“Submission is a gift that is given only to those that earn it.

Submission and BDSM, to me, is about an exchange of power and a bond of trust that is built between a Dom and a sub. A Dom should have the upmost respect for their sub. 

Given the nature of BDSM and submission I am extremely particular about who I choose to share such an intense scene with, and with who I will allow access to this part of myself.

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